I am a
feminist. I was raised by strong,
outspoken women. But none of them would
ever call themselves feminists because to them feminism means hating men and
not bathing and refusing to wear make up and having an overall aggressive and
defensive demeanor. While they
themselves hold feminist values and ideals, they are in the seemingly large
group of people who misclassify the women’s liberation movement of the 1960s as
feminism.
Feminism is the belief
that all sexes deserve equal rights and treatment. In 1960s America the feminist movement was a
second wave of the equal rights agenda of the nineteenth century
feminists. Led by predominately white
middle-class women as in the previous century, feminism in 1960s America sought
equal opportunities and treatment in employment and education. The women’s liberation movement emerged out
of this feminism.
Women’s liberation
focused on the patriarchy as a force dominating and oppressing women. Liberation meant becoming aware of this
oppression and making an effort to throw it off. They were very direct in their tactics. They discarded and burned “instruments of oppression”
such as bras, girdles, tweezers, and high-heels. They threw stink bombs into the Miss American
pageant in 1968 and crowned a sheep as their Miss America. While their beliefs were well intentioned and
not off base, their tactics were somewhat violent and ineffective in moving the
general public.
The widespread
misconception that my own family has about feminism is a huge problem facing
feminism today. While a lot of feminists
today hold the same beliefs as the women’s liberationists did, many of them do
not use the same tactics as a way of getting their message across. Feminists today are typically less violent in
their protests and tend not to attack other women for their own choices. I think that feminism today has evolved and
become much more inclusive and open to the wide of array of experiences that
each individual woman has. So it is
upsetting to me when people get so caught up in the old view of feminism as
violent and extreme and hateful as people viewed it in the 1960s. A lot of people need to open their minds and
look at feminism for what it truly is: compassionate, loving, and beautiful.